It’s so hot

I die. 

And I also wish I had better baby pictures of Lu and Bubba, but it was the 90’s and I was young and poor. 🤷‍♀️

Delaney got a large fluffy blanket for Christmas and often walks around with it over her shoulders, old witch lady style. She was just fixing to clip her ballet feet toenails at the dinner table when I shamed her with a picture. These kids  🤣

Our patient continues to feel better. She’s eating soft pasta and weaning off her pain meds and has been a fun little buddy to have around. As soon as she’s done recuperating Imma put her to work, so that will be lovely. 

Matt went into work. He thinks he’ll have to go in most days now. Of course during the summer when the girls are home, Matt leaves so I am never alone. 🤣 it’s fine, I got used to having him around and I do like that, and I also like my alone time. And hanging out with the girls. 🤣

I went to the middle school to collect the last of my stuff there from teacher appreciation week. I deleted my TA note and am waiting for my check and then I’ll be well and truly done. ⭐️ 

Today’s grad party prep is dessert baking shopping. Adi said she’s excited for the party, I like to throw a party, and throwing a party with a friend - perfect. 🤩 

Scheduled

 One youngest daughter’s pile of clothes is always twice as big as her sisters. I’m suspicious I might be washing clean clothes and, while doing my children’s laundry doesn’t make me angry, doing clean laundry does. 

Adi slept all night (no meds!) and woke up swollen but only a 2/10 on a pain scale. Yay!

Alecia and I walked before Inklings and we had a lovely meeting talking Elder Bednar. I am following a strict schedule to be prepared for multiple families of guests starting next Thursday, a graduation, 2 birthdays, and the graduation party next Saturday. So far so good!

For family night we watched the Sunday afternoon session go conference and now we’ve watched all of them together as a family. I hate doing it this way and look forward to watching again as normal, but Europe was cool too. 😉 

Wisdom

 Adi-cakes had her wisdom teeth removed this morning. I dutifully recorded our first few minutes together, but she was pretty normal. 

She had a “special” look with her mouth open and she kept doing silly poses. 

And then she wanted to go to the library, so that was pretty fun. 🤣

I dropped her off with Matt and ran to get her prescriptions and then nurse dad and I removed her gauze and got her applesauce and medicine. And then she slept for several hours. 

She’s been a very easy patient. She got lightheaded and was pretty pale this morning, but after her nap she was ship shape. 

Bubba and Jeanne have been busy busy moving in! And bubba found this “Little Arizona” overalls that he wore once upon a time and Ruby looked so adorable in them! Her hair is getting longer and starting to curl in the back too. Love her!

They had a ballet birthday and all the girls got cupcakes - so cute! I hadn’t even considered sending in a treat, so that was very thoughtful. 

It was hot hot hot today and at this stage of life I can’t even think about not having ac. Getting old is wild. 

Longer longer*

*that’s what it always corrects linger longer to. 🙄 

Our moana dinner was very involved and took a very long time. 

The girls guess every week (before they see anything) and they’re always wrong. 🤣

I cut up, marinated, then kebabed chicken and veggies.

I fried coconut shrimp (from scratch) and made an apricot horseradish sauce. 

 I made pineapple upside down cupcakes.

And I made Hawaiian pineapple fried rice.

  It was all very good, just a lot.

The last time I sat down and watched Moana was probably in the theater, so it was really fun to watch because I remembered so few of the details. 

Also, we found this cute note at Target. 

After the movie and before bed, Adi was asking about a Pilates or yoga kind of bedtime stretch so Delaney offered her dance warmup? Didn’t really make sense to me, but I enjoyed the 5 minutes they were tandem warming up. 

Today was the Linger Longer. I made a raspberry trifle, Adi made cookies, and Frankie made the sign. ❤️

I helped in nursery and it really is so fun. The lesson was about families so I hopped on Facebook last night and saved a bunch of pictures of the kids families. Then we talked about families and I showed them the pictures. It was cute when they recognized their families. I even did Cherissa’s and she chuckled. 

After church we enjoyed the linger longer then there was a baptism, but I had a communications meeting, so we had to head home. I thought I was done with zoom but I was v wrong. 

These cuties were hanging outside so it was picture time! Adi and Frankie drove up to a Ycl camp meeting with Sarah and crew.

Amber and I went and visited with Jackie and Richard and are praying so hard for them. 

And Henry is learning the fine art of the sippy cup. 

We went and picked up a v nice free high chair from a lovely couple out past the high school. Someone gave it to them for their grands and now they passed that on to me. ❤️

ADHD

I’ve switched my welcome wall to a travel wall. I’m a sucker for a themed wall. I went through each item to remember where they came from.

In no particular order:

Brown frame - Ysleta Mission, El Paso, Texas (my dads picture) 🇺🇸 

Farmhouse tile above brown frame - Gyongyos, Hungary 🇭🇺 

Blue salmon - Orcas Island, Washington 🇺🇸 

Clay door - San Marino 🇸🇲 

Boat picture - Rustico, Prince Edward Island, Canada 🇨🇦 

Wood poster - Whistler, British Columbia, Canada  🇨🇦 

Hand painted flower  - Lake Bled, Slovenia 🇸🇮 

Hand painted waterfall - small square - Road to Hana, Maui, Hawaii 🇺🇸 

Illustrated poster - Llangollen, Wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 

Illustrated poster - The Big Island, Hawaii 🇺🇸 

We also bought an expensive (to us) piece of original artwork in Paris and unfortunately cannot find it. It had been rolled up in a tube and I think we got it out to flatten it and now it’s gone. So that’s a big bummer but I feel like we’ll find it someday. Being married to someone with adhd you often find things in real weird places. Like his wallet and phone on the jolly greens running board in our garage (today) or the church key in his pants pocket (also today) after I suggested that spot but then we searched around for a few minutes. 

Tangent, but if I didn’t believe in eternal marriage, this really could lead to divorce. We have had so many stressful situations searching for things. Matt is not doing anything malicious or wrong for losing things, it really is just a way that his adhd shows up, but for someone like me that can be so very frustrating. Thankfully I do believe in eternal marriage and I mostly don’t get twirled up when this happens anymore. I also don’t always help him look because I have learned what I need to do to stay married. And sometimes that means walking away, staying asleep, or otherwise removing myself  from the situation. And I know I’ve got my tough things too. I mean, I don’t know, because I think I’m pretty down to earth and willing to work on my flaws, but I’m sure there’s something. Also, I could have been the Paris art misplacer. 🤷‍♀️

Yesterday Delaney went to her first and last middle school dance - the 8th grade formal. 

She really wanted a waistcoat and found this cool one and the blouse in Hungary. She really wanted to wear pants and I had some feelings about that. Why is middle school so hard? Matt and I talked and prayed and ultimately decided to let her. She’s very much in her alternative phase with music, makeup, and fashion, which is v opposite of me but v on brand for Matt. 🤷‍♀️ And she’s a total ballet girlie, so 🤷‍♀️.

She reported that the dance was boring but she did dance YMCA. 

Frankie had her new friend Carter come over. We watch Jumanji and I made movie theater popcorn that Alli gave us for Christmas. It was so good! We used to make popcorn on the stove daily when we were kids and I haven’t lost my knack. 

Adi went to Senior Sunset and stayed for the movie and then Lily came over. So we played Quiplash with everyone plus Carter and Delaney’s friend Alex, then more Quiplash with Adi and Lily when they came home. It was a fun night. 

Today Delaney headed to dance at 8:30, I made waffles for brekkie, and then we cleaned the church. We were all very excited to find a new vacuum! We are thrill seeking people. 

We had operation go-so-fast at Aldi and Target. We were out of everything, so it was truly an impressive team effort when we finished both places in under an hour. The crew went to the Stake Olympics activity and Adi and Frankie only grumbled a little. 

I spent my quiet afternoon prepping, cooking, and cleaning for our 9th Disney dinner. We’ll be heading to the Village of Motunui and I’m super excited!

Firsts and lasts

The middle girl went to her last day of high school today. She’s been all joy (and some sass) from her first day of kindergarten…

To her last day of high school. I am not feeling super emotional, but I did get a little teary looking at these. Life is wild!

I got some graduation decor that I can use on our house for now and then for her party later this month. 

And I had a few things that made the trek from 2014 and 2016 - like the banner on our sliding glass door that says 2016 grad on it. 🤷‍♀️

She’ll come home to the celebration. 🎉 

In other news - when mom cleans out the fridge and freezer you get random meals. Who says sushi, pizza, Parmesan squash (except it’s mozzarella because we’re out of parm), kiwi, and cucumbers don’t go together?

My phone storage is full so we’re downloading pictures and I went through all my videos yesterday and remembered this funny one from Pula where we were trying to take a video to get a good family picture but poor Frankie was completely missing. 🤣

Oakville Primary School shared a welcome to kindergarten video on Facebook and I screenshotted this one of 4 of my fav guys!

The Pools moved into their new house last week and the Trujillos move into their house today! So many good things!

Callings

Frankie has been working on a banner for the young women led Linger Longer this Sunday. She’s the 2nd counselor (Adi’s the first and they’ve been doing well ((I think)) serving together) in the oldest class presidency, aka Gatherers of Light, so she volunteered to make this and I think it will be super cute and add to the Linger Longer ambiance. Also, hello ward Linger Longers - it’s been awhile! I’m excited to participate again. ❤️

It’s turning out really cutely!

Today was the last day of seminary! So we’re 3/3 kids graduating seminary so far. And Frankie’s 1/2 way there. Fittingly, it looks like #5 might be the most difficult. 😩

I went to the lady doctor this morning and then Ginny came over to train me up on Communications for the Church. I have been spending a few minutes every day on the Global Communications Network reading trainings and watching videos. I have spoken to my counterpart in DC South and she sounds like a whip-smart boss lady, so kinda opposite of me. 🤣 I also got my church network email - so official, and set up my first media interview for July. Watch out, world, this chic might be on a local Montgomery County news show! Or we might have someone else do it. 🤣 I equal parts want to do it and don’t, so I’m good either way. Like, it will be really challenging so that makes me want and not want it. I know when I’m on the Lords errand and I’m prepared that I won’t fail, at least not in ways that truly matter. 

Memory lane

I was looking through my blog for proof that Christian took piano lessons from Johnna and found this cute picture of Mike and Frankie from forever ago. I sent it to Juana and she sent it to Mike and then sent me some pictures of him today. It was a fun exchange. 

I’ve been doing all the back home things. I used a washcloth before I left on Saturday and it was still on the table Monday evening, soooo. 🤣 Also, soooo sleepy.

Adi has 2 more days of high school, she and Frankie have 1 more day of seminary, and Delaney has her 8th grade dance on Friday. May is May’ing.
 

Graduation season

Sunday was graduation day! Penn State was really over the river and through the woods, way out there, but the drive, again, was beautiful! We dropped E off and went to their creamery for some delicious ice cream.

I really liked the commencement speaker. He talked about being intentional, but also flexible, and making the most of every opportunity, even or maybe especially when they seem like they might not be the best. 

Ehlyvia wanted to leave a few minutes before everything ended and it was not my graduation and she’s not my child, so we met her before the crowds descended and grabbed some pictures. 

Those are $60 roses there, because when you graduate on Mother’s Day, they hike the prices. 

Amy had just bought the light Jean jacket im wearing, and she let me wear it so we didn’t twin, because the Jean jacket I brought was exactly the same color as the one she is wearing here. 🤣

We made friends with another graduate family and took pictures for each other. 

I’m so glad we were able to make this work to be there for E. It was a good weekend getting to know each other and I love spending time with Amy. 

We went back to Ehlyvia’s hotel and went for a 10pm swim and it was lovely. 

We slept in till 10 on Sunday (I couldn’t believe it!) so on Monday we set an alarm for 8 and walked downtown again. I really wanted a Raystown Lake shirt, but didn’t find one. Had to settle for this cute picture. 🤣

We picked Ehlyvia up at 10 and headed to check out the cute little downtown shops. But first she treated us to drinks at this cute little drink hut. 

We found an amazing thrift store and bakery but most of the other shops were closed on Mondays. We both had about a 5 hour drive, so we headed out at 12;30. 

E and I had a really great 3 hour talk. Kinda hard, very vulnerable, hopefully impactful. In buying their new house and Christian buying their new house, Lexi has talked about how nanny’s got their backs and has been helping, and I really felt prompted to say certain things, which, by the spirit or from my parents, I don’t think just came from my little brain. I debriefed with Amy on the hour and a half drive home after dropping E off and it’s always sweet to come home. 

And now, back to catching up on May.